A man has his clothes made to fit him; a woman makes herself fit her clothes (Repeated)
By
Dr. Abid Yahya
We often have an impression, as if we experience failures, we blame that is happened because of someone. Therefore, when there is an obligation to search for real ways of problem solution, we waste time and nerves to come across a guilty one and force him/her into the corner at any cost. And, in fact, we feel better then. Menace of such installation is that we forget about basic value of failure, we should take messages from it. Target to blame others only demoralizes our efforts to way from failure to success.
God created man and woman to live and work in partnership, lovesome for the rest of creation. Nevertheless, this was not affirmed. The man determined to blame the woman for his first sin and the woman transferred the blame to the ophidian. This is still the order of the day.
Women are the handling supplier and nurturer of infants and children, the reliever for the crying child and the feminine presence of the household. Women usually look at the details of the matter and they have the potential of juggling more than one problem at a time unlike the man. And she is more seasoned to her feelings.
If we come across at the example of a family with the wife who tries to be like the man, we have a situation where the position is unusual because of the presence of the man. Man, regardless of, how gifted or ungifted have a certain capacity to say that he is THE man in the house. And for the wife to assume his position there will be sure unrest in the overall relationship.
The Woman Problem comes up again after the professional woman has assumed a husband and a couple of children, with the traditions pressing to give her a heavy responsibility in the home, with her husband noting. Conceiving like a man here is not going to be balanced because a man doesn't see things a woman does. There's a sense for action and reaction in terms of human reaction for a woman. This is the region a woman's ability outperforms the man's.
“The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom”
The left side of the brain controls language. The right side of the brain controls emotions. The argue, women are more sensitive than men is because a woman's brain fibers are 23% thicker than men's, granting them to be able to employ both emotion and language at the same time, while men are blank in this scenario. So ladies, if a man doesn't appreciate or recognize your emotions don't get crazy. It's all in your heads, factually.
“A man is as old as he's feeling, a woman as old as she looks”
Self image is extremely vital to the female and sometimes they blame the men they are involved with for seemly less than perfect. When women put on weight or have skin concerns they tend to hold their partner accountable for it. Ladies, who shift blame for all failures on men, apply diversified deliberate receptions. Some of them, believing themselves wise and artful, do not go to a forward attack; fall to level of apparent upbraids, particularly, insults to men.
“Money sometimes makes fools of important persons, but it may also make important persons of fools”
If a man desires to be seen as admirable and have a good relationship with a woman, he has to come up with leadership qualities. When he observes a situation that needs to be dealt with, he should step forward and handle it. Some men avoid taking the lead because they don't want to be criticized. A man requires making decisions and taking responsibility for the consequence. Someone who can have power over his anger is better than a physically strong man who can conquer a city. A severe rebuke in anger can badly damage a relationship.
No one is perfect; though one may pretend to be so. Many of the aforesaid problems start from the lack of savvy of the needs and fallacies of the partner. If the spouses realize that we are frail and that each one of us has to give some space and extent for the other, many problems would die out. But this does not turn out in real life. It is extremely hard to confess. We tend to put out of sight our insufficiency by casting salvos on the other. If this is not done, problems that come out large would appear small. For any scarcity, the approach should on one of sympathy instead of argument.
Poverty War and Politicians..
There are more poor people in this world now than there has been in a very long time, yet politicians do not seem to really be focusing on it. Instead, the focus has been the deficit, getting people back to work. The Poverty War became a “war” in name only; no steps have been taken so far to alleviate poverty.
Politicians use poor as a weapon either in favor or against government. Politician will never remove the gap of poor and rich, they want this class difference. That is the reason that none of Politician is poor, only poor becomes poorer. They will remember poor well before the election, soon after that you are like a dead body for them.
Why you are not realizing their intentions, how long they will make fool of you. There is hard and fast rule that poor will give birth to poor only, that custom is created by our owns. Why your kids should deprive of good health, education and reputable name in society. You ever realize why Politicians portraying the bad character of their rivals because they know politicians have only this…
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